Self-Catering & Dry Hire Wedding Venues

Self-catering and dry hire wedding venues, hired exclusively for your wedding weekend. Bring in the caterer, bar and suppliers you love, plan the day your way, and keep your closest guests under one roof with nobody else booked in.

16 self-catering wedding venues

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Wales · Swansea

Dreamstone Castle

Sleeps 40 - 80 · 50 bedrooms · 40+ bathrooms · Castle

Dreamstone Castle is a one-of-a-kind venue, perfect for unforgettable events and fairytale weddings. Available for exclusive hire, this magnificent castle allows guests to step into a world…

  • Wedding Receptions
  • BBQ
  • Corporate Events
  • Games Room
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North · Doncaster

The Rosewood Hall

Sleeps 42 · 21 bedrooms · 21 bathrooms · Country house

The Rosewood Hall is a remarkable 19th-century estate set among beautifully landscaped grounds, offering an exceptional venue for luxury group stays, family celebrations, weddings, and…

  • Wedding Receptions
  • BBQ
  • Games Room
  • Hot Tub
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South West · Ross-on-Wye

Meadow Manor

Sleeps 18 · 8 bedrooms · 7 bathrooms · Country house

Meadow Manor is a beautifully renovated self-catering residence near the Forest of Dean and the Wye Valley AONB, the venue is thoughtfully designed for comfort and creating connection…

  • Wedding Receptions
  • BBQ
  • Hot Tub
  • Private Gardens
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Wales · Blaenffos

Roe Manor

Sleeps 21 · 10 bedrooms · 10 bathrooms · Country house

Roe Manor is a self-catering, Grade II-listed Georgian residence set within expansive private grounds in Pembrokeshire. Overlooking a tranquil lake, it offers an exceptional backdrop for…

  • Wedding Licence
  • Wedding Receptions
  • Corporate Events
  • Hot Tub
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North · Scunthorpe

Chestnut Hall

Sleeps 16 · 8 bedrooms · 4.5 bathrooms · Country house

*There is a yurt located on the grounds of Chestnut Hall, which can house an additional 2 adults and 2 children to increase the overall capacity to 22 if needed. Welcome to Chestnut Hall, a…

  • Wedding Licence
  • Wedding Receptions
  • Outdoor Swimming Pool
  • Pet Friendly
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Scotland · Mauchline

Golden Manor Spa Venue

Sleeps 26 · 8 bedrooms · 6 bathrooms · Country house

Set in the heart of Ayrshire golf country, just a short walk from the historic Bachelors’ Club, this converted coaching inn offers an exclusive use retreat for up to 26 guests. With…

  • Wedding Receptions
  • Bar
  • BBQ
  • Cinema Room
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South East · Hailsham

Greenwood Estate

Sleeps 44 · 18 bedrooms · 7 bathrooms · Estate

Greenwood Estate is a large group accommodation, nestled in the beautiful, rural area of the South East. Accommodating up to 44 guests, this is the perfect Party House for particularly…

  • Wedding Licence
  • Wedding Receptions
  • Badminton
  • BBQ
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South East · Saxmundham

Goldfinch Lakeside Manor

Sleeps 24-27 · 12 bedrooms · 11 bathrooms · Country house

If you’re looking for holiday homes to rent in the South East of England, Goldfinch Lakeside Manor is one of our favourites. Whether you wish to escape the hustle and bustle of city life or…

  • Wedding Licence
  • Wedding Receptions
  • BBQ
  • Cinema Room
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Wales · Chepstow

Chepstow Manor

Sleeps 24 to 28 · 7 bedrooms · 6 bathrooms · Country house

Chepstow Manor is a large, yet incredibly charming, house to rent in South Wales. Located next to the River Severn, this self-catering accommodation near Newport is set within three acres…

  • Wedding Receptions
  • Bar
  • Cinema Room
  • Games Room
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Midlands & Peak District · Kington

Kington Lodge

Sleeps 16 to 39 · 16 bedrooms · 8 bathrooms · Estate

Located within beautiful countryside near the border with Wales, Kington Lodge is a fantastic property to rent in Herefordshire. This attractive Victorian stable-yard has been converted to…

  • Wedding Receptions
  • Badminton
  • BBQ
  • Cinema Room
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Midlands & Peak District · Leek

Toft Estate

Sleeps 46 to 48 · 23 bedrooms · 16 bathrooms · Estate

The unique Toft Estate is a self-catering venue made up of three main venues. There's Toft Hall for 20, Chels Barn for 12, Toft Barn for 12, and Toft then Nook for 2-4 guests. They are all…

  • Wedding Receptions
  • BBQ
  • Games Room
  • Hot Tub (available at extra cost)
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Midlands & Peak District · Leek

Toft Hall

Sleeps 20 · 10 bedrooms · 6 bathrooms · Country house

Toft Hall is a 300-year-old Georgian manor hall once owned by the High Sheriff of Staffordshire. Based on the edge of the stunning Peak District, it was once an outpost during the civil war…

  • Wedding Receptions
  • BBQ
  • Games Room
  • Hot Tub (available at extra cost)
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Wales · Tenby

Tenby Manor

Sleeps 28 - 34 · 11 bedrooms · 11 bathrooms · Country house

Tenby Manor is a spectacular beach house rental in South Wales. Accommodating 34 guests in 11 bedrooms, this pet-friendly accommodation is an impressive self-catering venue. From the bright…

  • Wedding Licence
  • Wedding Receptions
  • Arts & Craft Room
  • Bar
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Midlands & Peak District · Leek

Roaches Hall

Sleeps 30 · 13 bedrooms · 11 bathrooms · Country house

Set next to the famous Roaches Rocks, Roaches Hall is one of our flagship venues rich in history. A Victorian hunting lodge dating back to the 1800’s, it was once owned by Sir Philip…

  • Wedding Receptions
  • BBQ
  • Games Room
  • Pool Table
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Midlands & Peak District · Stoke-on-Trent

Hamps Hall & Barn

Sleeps 40 · 18 bedrooms · 12 bathrooms · Estate

Hamps Hall and Barn is a delightfully unique self catering venue based in the stunning Peak District. Sleeping over 40 guests it is made up of two venues connected to one another - Hamps…

  • Wedding Receptions
  • BBQ
  • Games Room
  • Hot Tub (available at extra cost)
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South East · Pulborough

Pulborough Estate

Sleeps 41 to 53 · 11 bedrooms · 11 bathrooms · Estate

Situated on the edge of the South Downs National Park, the Pulborough Estate is a collection of beautiful houses to rent in West Sussex. The Estate comprises of the Pulborough Hall…

  • Wedding Receptions
  • BBQ
  • Hot Tub (available at extra cost)
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What is a dry hire or self-catering wedding venue?

With a dry hire or self-catering venue, you hire the space and bedrooms rather than a fixed wedding package. Instead of a set menu and an in-house bar, you choose your own caterer, drinks and suppliers. It gives you far more control over the food, the style and the budget – and it is how most exclusive use houses work.

We have 16 self-catering wedding venues, including Dreamstone Castle in Swansea, Pulborough Estate in Pulborough and Toft Estate in Leek. Each one is hired by a single couple at a time, so the kitchen, dining rooms and grounds are yours for the stay.

Choosing your own caterer

You might want a long sharing-table feast, a hog roast, street-food vans in the garden or a private chef for an intimate dinner. Choosing your own caterer makes all of these possible. Many venues have kitchens big enough for professional caterers to work from, and some have preferred suppliers who already know the house – ask our team which is which before you book.

Bring your own drinks

One of the biggest savings with a dry hire venue is the bar. Rather than paying venue prices and corkage, you can buy your own wine, beer and fizz, or hire a mobile bar company to serve it. Check each venue’s rules on licensing, glassware and who can serve drinks, especially if you are inviting extra day guests.

Planning a self-catered wedding

More freedom means a little more organising. Think about hire of tables, chairs, crockery and linen if the house does not have enough, where caterers can set up, waste and recycling, and who will clear up after the party. Many couples bring in a wedding planner or on-the-day coordinator to keep everything running smoothly, so they can relax and enjoy the weekend.

How many guests can stay?

Our self-catering wedding venues sleep between 16 and 80 people, and nine of them sleep 30 or more. The bedrooms usually go to the wedding party and close family, with other guests staying nearby. Many venues welcome extra day and evening guests; use the Sleeps filter above to see the venues big enough for your group.

Choosing the right self-catering venue

Look closely at the kitchen and the dining space. A large kitchen with good access makes life easier for caterers, and a dining room or barn that seats everyone together is ideal for the wedding breakfast. Outside space matters too: a lawn or courtyard can host food vans, a bar tent or a marquee. Our team can tell you how each venue works for a self-catered wedding, including parking for suppliers and any rules on noise and finishing times.

Getting married at the venue

In England and Wales, a venue needs a wedding licence to host the legal ceremony on site. Venues showing Wedding Licence or Wedding Receptions host weddings today. Where a house is not licensed, many couples hold the legal ceremony at a nearby register office or church and a personal, symbolic ceremony at the venue in front of everyone. In Scotland, an authorised celebrant can marry you at almost any venue.

Costs and when to book

Venue hire covers the house, bedrooms and grounds for your stay, and you budget separately for catering, drinks and suppliers. That makes it easier to spend where it matters to you. Prices depend on the venue, the season, the day of the week and the number of nights. Summer weekends book up first – enter your dates above to see which venues are free.

Self-catering & dry hire wedding FAQs

What is the difference between dry hire and self-catering?

Both mean you hire the venue without an in-house wedding package. Dry hire usually refers to the space and bar, while self-catering means you arrange your own food. At an exclusive use house you typically get both, plus the bedrooms.

Can we bring our own alcohol?

At most self-catering venues, yes. Check each venue’s rules on licensing and serving, particularly if you are hiring a bar company or inviting extra day guests.

Do we have to use the venue’s suppliers?

Usually not, although some venues have preferred or approved suppliers. Our team will tell you each venue’s rules before you book.

Is dry hire cheaper?

It often is, because you avoid package prices and venue bar mark-ups. It does mean organising more yourself, so build in time or a coordinator.

How many guests can stay overnight?

Our self-catering wedding venues sleep from 16 to 80 guests, and nine of them sleep 30 or more. More guests can usually join for the day.

How far ahead should we book?

Twelve to 24 months is typical for summer weekends. Off-season and midweek dates can often be found at shorter notice – check live availability in the search above.

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